The same thing keeps happening, with different people.

Plain-language explainers on why dating repeats, built from published research. Every article lists its sources and the date it was last checked.

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Brutal breakupNPR, 2022
Heartbroken? There's a scientific reason why breaking up feels so rotten (opens npr.org)
Explains why a breakup can throw off sleep, appetite and mood, and why the pain is physical as well as emotional.
LonelinessHarvard Health Publishing, 2017
The power and prevalence of loneliness (opens health.harvard.edu)
A short medical overview of how common loneliness is and why it matters for both mental and physical health.
AttractionAssociation for Psychological Science
Chemistry Between People: A Sum of Their Connections (opens psychologicalscience.org)
Shows that chemistry grows out of how two people interact over time, not out of a checklist of traits.

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