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      },
      {
        "id": "certainty",
        "low": "Easy with not knowing",
        "high": "Needs to know"
      },
      {
        "id": "pull",
        "low": "Drawn to new",
        "high": "Drawn to familiar"
      },
      {
        "id": "exit",
        "low": "Lets go",
        "high": "Holds on"
      }
    ],
    "results": [
      {
        "id": "full-speed",
        "name": "Full Speed",
        "summary": "You feel it early and you let yourself run with it.",
        "url": "https://datingpatterns.com/quiz/full-speed/"
      },
      {
        "id": "slow-burn",
        "name": "Slow Burn",
        "summary": "You wait until you are sure, and you are rarely sure early.",
        "url": "https://datingpatterns.com/quiz/slow-burn/"
      },
      {
        "id": "clear-sky",
        "name": "Clear Sky",
        "summary": "Not knowing where you stand is the hardest part for you.",
        "url": "https://datingpatterns.com/quiz/clear-sky/"
      },
      {
        "id": "open-ended",
        "name": "Open Ended",
        "summary": "You are comfortable letting things stay undefined.",
        "url": "https://datingpatterns.com/quiz/open-ended/"
      },
      {
        "id": "home-pull",
        "name": "Home Pull",
        "summary": "You are drawn to a feeling you already know.",
        "url": "https://datingpatterns.com/quiz/home-pull/"
      },
      {
        "id": "new-horizon",
        "name": "New Horizon",
        "summary": "You go looking for something different each time.",
        "url": "https://datingpatterns.com/quiz/new-horizon/"
      },
      {
        "id": "long-goodbye",
        "name": "Long Goodbye",
        "summary": "You stay past the point where it stopped working.",
        "url": "https://datingpatterns.com/quiz/long-goodbye/"
      },
      {
        "id": "clean-break",
        "name": "Clean Break",
        "summary": "When it is over, you are gone.",
        "url": "https://datingpatterns.com/quiz/clean-break/"
      },
      {
        "id": "even-keel",
        "name": "Even Keel",
        "summary": "No single lean stands out in your answers.",
        "url": "https://datingpatterns.com/quiz/even-keel/"
      }
    ]
  }
}